A lesson which should be learned from Kuttram Kadithal.

Director : Bramma

Cast       : Master Ajay, Radhika prasidha, Sai Rajkumar, Pavel Navageethan.

               Kuttram Kadithal, internationally celebrated film, won a National Award for the best regional film has finally hit the theaters. Directed by debutante G.Bramma, who has shown his lights to the complexities of present day Educational system. Movie depicts that Sex Education and Anger Management is must for both the students as well as teachers. We confuse kiss with a sexual onslaught because we where thought by the inappropriate media that it is a sexual activity rather than a way of expressing love which it used to be.

                 A small incident of a young boy Chezhiyan (Master Ajay) who kisses his classmate on her birthday acts as trigger for the movie. When the teacher insists him to apologize, he offers to kiss the teacher on her birthday. Teacher (Radhika prasidha) slaps him and in turn he falls unconscious with blood oozing from his nose is rushed to hospital where he goes into coma.

Merlin(Radhika) was advised to leave the city with his husband. She experiences the Agony, mental breakdown even as she was leaving the city. Chezhiyan's uncle (Pavel Navageethan) who is a communist wants to find merlin and make her pay for her doings. The insensitive media descends in the second half determined to sensationalize the incident so that they can increase their TRP rating. Within hours, television channels hold the debate session with child development officer and social activist. Madras pavel makes everyone anxious for his arrival since his intro was good. Except for Pavel, all are newcomers. Radhika who played as merlin has done her part neatly transforming from a happy newly wed to psychological affected trying to come in terms with her guilt. These are several such character and everyone has added their dimension to the film in a good manner.

                  Director excels in revealing the trauma of both the victim and the abuser, both sides of coin which most fail to do. Director has chosen the title from 44 athikaaram of Thirukkural, where thiruvalluvar alludes to avoid mistakes, even if you've committed one, have the guts to apologize. Using Bharathiyar's song, "Chinnachiru Killiye" was a excellent move. Dialogues were too good not to be ignored like the headmaster's wife rebuff to pavel, the way police woman speaks and handles the situation wisely, pavel's character established through his introduction words at the accident scenes.

Kuttram Kadhithal is a excellent dramatic movie, must watch one in recent times.

Lesson which we should learn is Anger management and Sex education. Every child comes to know of Sex in some part of their time through inappropriate medium. It is better that they learn it properly through a proper ones. If you feel shy to teach the next generation about the sex education, consequence will be bad. Young people can make good decisions about their sexual health if educational policies, programs and services are available to them. Anger management is must for teachers because marks are not the ultimate goal of education. Most would argue that if you want to preach discipline, you have to go through the hard part like spanking and beating. Discipline should help the children learn how to control their behavior, guide them and help them feel good about yourself but Spanking is only used to directly control the children's behavior. If a child learns discipline through spanking, this will make him think that corporal punishment is the solution for every problem.

Humanity is still clinging on to most of the peoples heart.

           

ACT 1 :

            How many of us know about " Suspended coffees". Here is a story about Suspended coffees origin story which could be found in many of our Facebook walls with original punctuation intact.

“We enter a little coffeehouse with a friend of mine and give our order. While we’re approaching our table two people come in and they go to the counter – ‘Five coffees, please. Two of them for us and three suspended’

They pay for their order, take the two and leave. I ask my friend:

‘What are those ‘suspended’ coffees ?’

‘Wait for it and you will see’

Some more people enter. Two girls ask for one coffee each, pay and go. The next order was for seven coffees and it was made by three lawyers – three for them and four ‘suspended’. While I still wonder what’s the deal with those ‘suspended’ coffees I enjoy the sunny weather and the beautiful view towards the square in front of the café. Suddenly a man dressed in shabby clothes who looks like a beggar comes in through the door and kindly asks

‘Do you have a suspended coffee ?’

It’s simple – people pay in advance for a coffee meant for someone who can not afford a warm beverage. The tradition with the suspended coffees started in Naples, but it has spread all over the world and in some places you can order not only a suspended coffee, but also a sandwich or a whole meal.”

We would ask everyone who reads this story to please comment “im gonna do this”and tag your nearest coffee stores facebook page in the comment section. Try to do it just once lets make a difference together . Share the story spread the word . Have an awesome day :)"

This story is definitely interesting and it will be implemented in most parts of our city . But instead coffees, some light foods and soup would do good and Actual words with poor people can do great because most people can buy their food but they lack caring people. This Suspended coffees can be a great success if some greedy, cheap jerks don't excise this privilege to buy a coffee while they rest their shitty ass in luxury car.

This suspended coffee movement has already found its way in India in some States. and I believe it will be starting in our city (Chennai) in some days. There is a blog for this suspended coffee movement where you can register your local coffee shop who has instituted this idea. You can check that blog here: http://suspendedcoffees.com/

ACT 2:

 Most of us came cross this unfortunate incident which occurred two days back. I was driven back by the news. The headline goes like this, Chennai-Mangalore express derailed near puvanur and 39 people were injured. I thanked god and started reading it. The derailment occurred at 2 am. The express train with 22 coaches was travelling at good speed, when five of its compartment in the rear side derailed. Passengers who were asleep felt a violent jerk in the impact. Without waiting for any help, passengers onboard the train launched a rescue operation by helping those who got caught in the derailed coaches. the villagers in the vicinity of the track also came to the rescue of passengers in quick time. This quick action was the reason behind zero life loss. Amidst these great peoples who acted fast, there was a wolf who too acted kind and gained what he needed. Mr.Padmanabhan who was one among the injured got out of the compartment only to find the Rs. 47 lakh cash kept in his beg was missing. These wolves dont give a damn of the situation and do what they want.

Love Saves one's Life.

 

Something which you don't get to see often.

This story could've easily ended as a tragic one. Luckily, because of her boyfriend's timely thinking and actions, this one has happy ending. Let us see what had happened.

After an argument with her boyfriend, this woman jumps out of her window and finds herself plummeting to the city streets. Her boyfriend, who had went one floor below to try and reason with her via balcony found that her girl has jumped, miraculously he catches her on the way down.

Are we Grateful or Ignorant Supremacy?

                                             Even if you reach the level of supremacy or Excellence, You should never forgot your basics (ie.) to be grateful to the ones who helped you reach this height. Respect Every profession because Every profession is needed to this society.

These excellent posters by The Minimalist tell us why we should be:

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How to make people love you??

Can you say which of these can you change?

• Your taste in food.
• Your body.
• Your likeability (There are someguys in our friend circle who just walk into a new atmosphere and already some people starts liking him.)

Which trait do you think is malleable?

The answer is All the above mentioned !.

This realization that i could change anything if I wish just blew up mind !!

Most of us want ourself to be loved by others, but we don't know how is that going to happen and tag it as impossible and leave that beside us.

Iam damn sure that at the end of this post you'll learn few new ways to get people around you to like you. And this is a BIG promise.

There must be this guy in your friendcircle who is most liked by others - that guy gets into a room full of strangers and yet he is got somenew friends within few minutes and you just cling to him so that you are not left alone.

Like this guy..

How do you do that? How do you get that magnetic skill where people instantly likes you?

So what can we do beyond the obvious advice of “Smile?”

Best option is Eye Contact Challenge.In short:

• Most people do not consciously use eye contact, when it is one of the most valuable tools you have at your disposal. With a half-second look, you can convey attraction, friendliness, sadness, curiosity.
• I challenge you to try TESTING eye contact. Notice I’m not saying “Get better at it!” I want you to see the difference when you try different types of eye contact. When done correctly, it can build rapport and intimacy. When done poorly, it can make you look like a serial killer. (We cover the difference in the clip below.)
• Specifically, try holding eye contact for a second longer than you normally would. How do you feel? How does the other person react?
• Remember, you have MANY opportunities to try this out. Practice on your waiter, barista, or the person at the checkout counter.

There is a link to a video where Ramit,  Blogging legend interviews Olivia Fox cabane on social skills.
Click here to watch the video http://www.iwillteachyoutoberich.com/special/brain-trust-2-year-anniversary/olivia-fox-cabane/.

Some of  the points which they discussed are 

• How is your social skills, and how to know whether the other person is listening to you?
• How to make yourself interested in someone else's speech.
• A common,habitual problem women tend to have that makes them seem overeager, insecure, and nervous (You could be doing this without even knowing.) Nodding your head once is fine but six in a row is not fine.
• The “microexpressions” that betray you in just 17 milliseconds.
• Two easy ways to instantly become more present in conversations (even when you’re bored or tired)
• Why you can’t completely control your body language — and what to do instead.even though you control your main expressions, your subconscious expression will be fleshed and you are screwed. Instead use the advice given by her.
• The single biggest inhibitor to charisma and how to correct it.
• A secret about what it means 80% of the time when you see negativity on someone’s face.

Life lives and hence move on!

Growth is painful. Change is painful. But in the end, nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you do not belong. This is the truth.! So instead of complaining about your circumstances, get busy creating new ones and move on triumphantly !!!