How to make people love you??

Can you say which of these can you change?

• Your taste in food.
• Your body.
• Your likeability (There are someguys in our friend circle who just walk into a new atmosphere and already some people starts liking him.)

Which trait do you think is malleable?

The answer is All the above mentioned !.

This realization that i could change anything if I wish just blew up mind !!

Most of us want ourself to be loved by others, but we don't know how is that going to happen and tag it as impossible and leave that beside us.

Iam damn sure that at the end of this post you'll learn few new ways to get people around you to like you. And this is a BIG promise.

There must be this guy in your friendcircle who is most liked by others - that guy gets into a room full of strangers and yet he is got somenew friends within few minutes and you just cling to him so that you are not left alone.

Like this guy..

How do you do that? How do you get that magnetic skill where people instantly likes you?

So what can we do beyond the obvious advice of “Smile?”

Best option is Eye Contact Challenge.In short:

• Most people do not consciously use eye contact, when it is one of the most valuable tools you have at your disposal. With a half-second look, you can convey attraction, friendliness, sadness, curiosity.
• I challenge you to try TESTING eye contact. Notice I’m not saying “Get better at it!” I want you to see the difference when you try different types of eye contact. When done correctly, it can build rapport and intimacy. When done poorly, it can make you look like a serial killer. (We cover the difference in the clip below.)
• Specifically, try holding eye contact for a second longer than you normally would. How do you feel? How does the other person react?
• Remember, you have MANY opportunities to try this out. Practice on your waiter, barista, or the person at the checkout counter.

There is a link to a video where Ramit,  Blogging legend interviews Olivia Fox cabane on social skills.
Click here to watch the video http://www.iwillteachyoutoberich.com/special/brain-trust-2-year-anniversary/olivia-fox-cabane/.

Some of  the points which they discussed are 

• How is your social skills, and how to know whether the other person is listening to you?
• How to make yourself interested in someone else's speech.
• A common,habitual problem women tend to have that makes them seem overeager, insecure, and nervous (You could be doing this without even knowing.) Nodding your head once is fine but six in a row is not fine.
• The “microexpressions” that betray you in just 17 milliseconds.
• Two easy ways to instantly become more present in conversations (even when you’re bored or tired)
• Why you can’t completely control your body language — and what to do instead.even though you control your main expressions, your subconscious expression will be fleshed and you are screwed. Instead use the advice given by her.
• The single biggest inhibitor to charisma and how to correct it.
• A secret about what it means 80% of the time when you see negativity on someone’s face.

Life lives and hence move on!

Growth is painful. Change is painful. But in the end, nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you do not belong. This is the truth.! So instead of complaining about your circumstances, get busy creating new ones and move on triumphantly !!!

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28 Breathtaking photographs of the HUMAN RACE.

   A boy rescues his sister from underneath the rubble of their home in Syria.

"I’m fed up to the ears with old men dreaming up wars for young men to die in."

Yezidi girl carries an assault rifle to protect her family against ISIS.

A mother and her 3 year-old daughter, who were attacked with acid by their husband/father.

Girl that survived 11 days in Siberian Forest.

Siberian Family Meal.

Blind albino boys in their boarding room at a mission school for the blind in West Bengal, India, 2013.

3 weeks-old newborn with albinism happily sleeping with his cousin in Kinshasa, Congo photo Patricia Willocq.

Public bus passengers try to rescue a woman who tried to commit suicide by slitting her wrist with a fruit knife.

A boy of the nomadic Suri tribe of Ethiopia, in traditional face/body paint and attire.

Iowa couple of 72 years finally gets married.

The face of a Chinese coal miner.

13 year old eagle huntress Ashol Pan; Mongolia.

A Palestinian girl with a Kalashnikov rifle, amid Islamic Jihad militants in Gaza City.

7 Year Old Syrian Rebel.

RiffleSolider.

An 18 year old IDF soldier pauses after a long run in full gear and battle paint. 

Rice Farmer in Small Villiage, Vietnam.

Malagasy girl walks among the Baobab trees.

Ethiopian girl from the Hamer tribe.

A Monk And His Brother.

A poor farmer’s son graduated.

A girl from the minority Yazidi sect rests at the Iraqi-Syrian border crossing in Fishkhabour, Dohuk province after fleeing Isla.

Mother and Daughter with Unique Eye Color Patterns.

Alcoholic Father with child.

2 Year Old Offering Food To Her Handicapped Mom.

Toshimana, an apprentice Geisha in Kyoto.

This Guy follows a girl everyday in a train.. Check what and how he expressed ?

There are many ways to express your love.
See how this guy expressed his feelings to her.

“Time goes faster the more hollow it is. Lives with no meaning go straight past you, like trains that don’t stop at your station.”
― Carlos Ruiz Zafón, The Shadow of the Wind

Please SHARE this beautiful story with your friends.

Feedbacks

When your friend says, "Tell me if I ever get in a bad relationship.."..you must understand that they NEVER MEANT IT.

We all had friends who said, "Let us make a promise: If either of us gets in a bad relationship,we'll tell the other person we don't like their girlfriend/boyfriend."It's like two 10 year old boys solemnly pledging that they're never going to like girls because they're gross.
Then your friend gets into a horrible RELATIONSHIP.. and you can't say anything!! I've seen it myself manytimes- You try to subtly bring something up stupidly ("Hey man, do you think it's weird that she doesn't let you order your favourite dishes?" and he instantly becomes defensive. Sigh..

3 Takeaways:

• People do not want your honest feedback about their relationship because their intimate partner becomes more important than you(friend). As the old rule goes, if you don’t like the relationship, you bring it up only once and never again. If you want to stay friends after that, you support their relationship, however much you don’t agree with it.
• Usually, these disastrous relationships end (or for worse, they get married…that is a long, long life). And it all could have been fixed with some honest feedback if they were ready to hear it.
• The way you GIVE feedback matters.

Let us see some feedbacks: 

Example: This is a bad way to give feedback.

Example: This is a goodway to give feedback.

You want to know how to improve yourself? You have to ask your people who can give you honest feedback which they thought to say you sometime ago but eventually forgot.You have  to just send these word- for word script which will eventually get you honest feedback.
Just ask yourself that What would happen if you send this to 3 people today?

Hi Name,

I'm trying to come up with a really a good NewYear's resolution for 2015 and I want your help.I know this might sound weird, but I would love your feedback on fewthings. (1) one thing you think I do really well? and (2) one thing which I should improve?

Thanks :)

This email is the kind of thing NOBODY does. And it can payoff in massive rewards. What if you found out that you tend to ramble on and onand everybody hates it? You would never know others like unless you approach them.You'll also get to find out what people like about you,which we don't always get to hear about.

This email works because you're transparently telling people what you're looking for, acknowledging that it's a little weird and asking for one constructive and one positive piece of feedback.

ADVANCE HAPPY NEWYEAR 2015!!