How to make people love you??

Can you say which of these can you change?

• Your taste in food.
• Your body.
• Your likeability (There are someguys in our friend circle who just walk into a new atmosphere and already some people starts liking him.)

Which trait do you think is malleable?

The answer is All the above mentioned !.

This realization that i could change anything if I wish just blew up mind !!

Most of us want ourself to be loved by others, but we don't know how is that going to happen and tag it as impossible and leave that beside us.

Iam damn sure that at the end of this post you'll learn few new ways to get people around you to like you. And this is a BIG promise.

There must be this guy in your friendcircle who is most liked by others - that guy gets into a room full of strangers and yet he is got somenew friends within few minutes and you just cling to him so that you are not left alone.

Like this guy..

How do you do that? How do you get that magnetic skill where people instantly likes you?

So what can we do beyond the obvious advice of “Smile?”

Best option is Eye Contact Challenge.In short:

• Most people do not consciously use eye contact, when it is one of the most valuable tools you have at your disposal. With a half-second look, you can convey attraction, friendliness, sadness, curiosity.
• I challenge you to try TESTING eye contact. Notice I’m not saying “Get better at it!” I want you to see the difference when you try different types of eye contact. When done correctly, it can build rapport and intimacy. When done poorly, it can make you look like a serial killer. (We cover the difference in the clip below.)
• Specifically, try holding eye contact for a second longer than you normally would. How do you feel? How does the other person react?
• Remember, you have MANY opportunities to try this out. Practice on your waiter, barista, or the person at the checkout counter.

There is a link to a video where Ramit,  Blogging legend interviews Olivia Fox cabane on social skills.
Click here to watch the video http://www.iwillteachyoutoberich.com/special/brain-trust-2-year-anniversary/olivia-fox-cabane/.

Some of  the points which they discussed are 

• How is your social skills, and how to know whether the other person is listening to you?
• How to make yourself interested in someone else's speech.
• A common,habitual problem women tend to have that makes them seem overeager, insecure, and nervous (You could be doing this without even knowing.) Nodding your head once is fine but six in a row is not fine.
• The “microexpressions” that betray you in just 17 milliseconds.
• Two easy ways to instantly become more present in conversations (even when you’re bored or tired)
• Why you can’t completely control your body language — and what to do instead.even though you control your main expressions, your subconscious expression will be fleshed and you are screwed. Instead use the advice given by her.
• The single biggest inhibitor to charisma and how to correct it.
• A secret about what it means 80% of the time when you see negativity on someone’s face.